The NaSh diaries

Read How to get from where you are to where you want to be by Jack Canfield...and believe me..I agree with Harvey Mackay who said : 'if you could read one book this year..you have it in your hands.'

So a promo para from the bookie..not exactly how it's written in there..but in my own words..

So there's this baby elephant...it gets trained since its as tiny miny as us, tethered to some pole with a rope that constraints it to only a certain region where it has to run, play, do the normal stuff baby elephants do, in that small circular space, so this poor, innocent thing can't break the rope..that's the way its mind is moulded....

it don't break the rope....thennnnn....it becomes a colossal tonner after a period of time and even then...voila..it can break the rope before it even knows it did and yet pity..the idea never really occurs to him..because even years after it has this same order issued in it's brain...

no escapades mister!

See..regardless of how bold we are..if we have been trained by family and friends since small to a lot of restrictions like you know..when you are a toddler..you get what you want...you cry until you get it..in real life it works just the same..if you have an aim..you go after it..if the boat doesn't come to the shore..you have to swim to it..

when we grow big..everyone goes like..hey! don't touch that! and no! you can't do this!

etc...etc...

if you scare yourself from challenges before anyone else gets the chance to scare you..what's the point of riding the whole adventure then?? You don't have to listen..some people keep thinking of their self image..how other people might dislike them and how they may become like some unacceptable standout in the crowd..like a black sheep?

Even if people are thinking about you..all that they really do is think what YOU are thinking about them..everyone's just busy handling their own affairs..they don't really have time to peep into other's lives and even if they do..they don't have a solution for your fix...only you can go ahead and deal with it..confront every fear strongly...if happiness is not permanent, neither is sadness..its just what everyone goes through...part and parcel of the game..and evryday you are living through it..you can really congratulate yourself..have the roadblocks but still move on...go do it already! Watchya waitin for?? Someone else to grab hold of your dreams???

Remeber this...what you want..wants you...follow your heart...:)

See what you want and get what you see!